today, we have bigger houses and smaller families
more conveniences, but less time
we have more degrees but less common sense
more knowledge but less judgement
we spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast,
get angry too quickly, stay up too late, read too little,
watch tv too much and pray too seldom
we've learned how to male living but not a life
we've added years to life, not life to years
we spend more but have less
we buy more, enjoy it less
we've been all the way the moon and back
but have trouble crossing the street to meet our neighbors
we write more, learn less...
plan more but accomplish less
we've learn to rush but not to wait
we have higher incomes but lower morals
we build computers to hold more information,
to produce more copies but have less communications
we are long on quantity but less in quality
that's why I propose, that as of today,
you do not keep anything for special occasion,
because everyday you live is a special occasion
life is a chain of moment of enjoyment,
not only about survival
use your crystal goblet, do not save your best perfume,
and use it everytime you feel you want it
let's tell our families and friends how much we love them
do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life
everyday, every hour, and every minute is special
and you don't know if it will be your last
Oct 20, 2010
100 Reasons to Be Happy Today
1. Every new day is another chance to change your life.
2. This day is an opportunity to be better than yesterday.
3. You can be who you want to be right now.
4. The glass is both half-empty and half-full.
5. Happiness comes from your own actions.
6. You have great friends.
7. You can learn a new thing today.
8. The summer is coming soon.
9. You are alive.
10. You are already complete..
11. You are unique.
12. You have an influence on the world.
13. You can change the world.
14. You can feel emotions.
15. You can change your perceptions.
16. You have accomplished great things.
17. You can be creative.
18. You can change your state of mind by engaging in a physical activity.
19. You can take responsibility and be empowered.
20. There is only now.
21. To be upset over what you don’t have is to waste what you do have.
22. There is something good in every day.
23. You can eat something healthy today to make you feel good.
24. Life is beautiful.
25. We are in this life together.
26. Shared joy is a double joy, shared sorrow is half sorrow.
27. You can start writing down the good things that happen.
28. You can achieve something today.
29. The weather is good.
30. You can listen to music.
31. You can enjoy the sunrise.
32. You can enjoy the sunset.
33. You can book a ticket to far away.
34. You can start learning a new language.
35. You can try something new.
36. You can find the love of your life.
37. You can do a random act of kindness.
38. You can make peace with an old enemy.
39. You can get a thing you have wanted for a long time.
40. You can arrange a surprise party.
41. You can say something nice to someone today.
42. You can flatter yourself.
43. You can help other people.
44. You can enjoy your own time.
45. You can fix something.
46. You can create value to others.
47. You can get rid of a bad habit.
48. You are able to laugh.
49. You can make other people laugh.
50. You can laugh to yourself.
51. You can be yourself.
52. You can follow your own path.
53. You can love.
54. You can take a risk.
55. You can remember.
56. You can dream.
57. You are gifted.
58. You are able to change your beliefs.
59. You have a passion in life.
60. You have time.
61. The weekend is coming soon.
62. You are able to make choices.
63. You are in abundance.
64. You are lucky.
65. You are healthy.
66. You are a strong person.
67. You can look better today.
68. There are more good things in the world than bad things.
69. You have a purpose.
70. You have a home.
71. You can believe.
72. You can hear.
73. You can see.
74. You can taste.
75. You can smell.
76. You can feel touch.
77. You can feel pain.
78. You can say “thank you” to people.
79. You are living the best time of your life.
80. Your age is perfect.
81. You can cry.
82. You can dance.
83. You can get rid of your anger.
84. You can listen.
85. You can hug someone.
86. You can make a list of all the things you want to do in your life before you die.
87. You can get rid of jealousy.
88. You can send a gift to someone.
89. You can stop worrying today.
90. You have the possibility to make today the best day of your life.
91. You can accept the things you cannot change.
92. You can change the things that are possible to change.
93. You can tackle a dreaded task.
94. You can have a good conversation with a stranger.
95. You can play.
96. You can sleep long.
97. You can clear some clutter.
98. You can distract yourself.
99. You can get an inspiration.
100. You can share this list with all your friends :)
copas from my best friend, Andrea Erdianty's blog :)
2. This day is an opportunity to be better than yesterday.
3. You can be who you want to be right now.
4. The glass is both half-empty and half-full.
5. Happiness comes from your own actions.
6. You have great friends.
7. You can learn a new thing today.
8. The summer is coming soon.
9. You are alive.
10. You are already complete..
11. You are unique.
12. You have an influence on the world.
13. You can change the world.
14. You can feel emotions.
15. You can change your perceptions.
16. You have accomplished great things.
17. You can be creative.
18. You can change your state of mind by engaging in a physical activity.
19. You can take responsibility and be empowered.
20. There is only now.
21. To be upset over what you don’t have is to waste what you do have.
22. There is something good in every day.
23. You can eat something healthy today to make you feel good.
24. Life is beautiful.
25. We are in this life together.
26. Shared joy is a double joy, shared sorrow is half sorrow.
27. You can start writing down the good things that happen.
28. You can achieve something today.
29. The weather is good.
30. You can listen to music.
31. You can enjoy the sunrise.
32. You can enjoy the sunset.
33. You can book a ticket to far away.
34. You can start learning a new language.
35. You can try something new.
36. You can find the love of your life.
37. You can do a random act of kindness.
38. You can make peace with an old enemy.
39. You can get a thing you have wanted for a long time.
40. You can arrange a surprise party.
41. You can say something nice to someone today.
42. You can flatter yourself.
43. You can help other people.
44. You can enjoy your own time.
45. You can fix something.
46. You can create value to others.
47. You can get rid of a bad habit.
48. You are able to laugh.
49. You can make other people laugh.
50. You can laugh to yourself.
51. You can be yourself.
52. You can follow your own path.
53. You can love.
54. You can take a risk.
55. You can remember.
56. You can dream.
57. You are gifted.
58. You are able to change your beliefs.
59. You have a passion in life.
60. You have time.
61. The weekend is coming soon.
62. You are able to make choices.
63. You are in abundance.
64. You are lucky.
65. You are healthy.
66. You are a strong person.
67. You can look better today.
68. There are more good things in the world than bad things.
69. You have a purpose.
70. You have a home.
71. You can believe.
72. You can hear.
73. You can see.
74. You can taste.
75. You can smell.
76. You can feel touch.
77. You can feel pain.
78. You can say “thank you” to people.
79. You are living the best time of your life.
80. Your age is perfect.
81. You can cry.
82. You can dance.
83. You can get rid of your anger.
84. You can listen.
85. You can hug someone.
86. You can make a list of all the things you want to do in your life before you die.
87. You can get rid of jealousy.
88. You can send a gift to someone.
89. You can stop worrying today.
90. You have the possibility to make today the best day of your life.
91. You can accept the things you cannot change.
92. You can change the things that are possible to change.
93. You can tackle a dreaded task.
94. You can have a good conversation with a stranger.
95. You can play.
96. You can sleep long.
97. You can clear some clutter.
98. You can distract yourself.
99. You can get an inspiration.
100. You can share this list with all your friends :)
copas from my best friend, Andrea Erdianty's blog :)
from Rectoverso (Back To Heaven's Light)
we all have our freedom to decide..
we all have our preference to experience..
I've forgiven him for leaving,
I've forgiven myself for staying,
and I've forgiven life for creating this drama
of birth and death
31 thing that u must know about girl
1. Tell her she's BEAUTIFUL. Not hot or sexy.
2. Hold her hand, just because you love her.
3. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
4. Wrestle with her, and let her win
5. Hug her from behind.
6. Don't hang out with your ex when she's not around. It kills her inside.
7. If you talk to another girl, walk over to her after you're done and kiss her.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say I love you.
9. Introduce her to your friends, as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up, even when she says no.
12. Get upset if she gets unwanted contact from someone else.
13. Make her laugh, just because you love to see her smile.
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her, don't fight back.
16. If you care about her, tell her, or else she won't come back.
17. Every girl should receive three presents from her guy:
- a teddy bear (she'll hug it when she goes to sleep)
- jewelry (she'll treasure it forever)
- one of your shirts (she'll wear it to bed)
18. Treat her same with your friends as when you are alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and give her your best smile.
20. Hang out with her on the weekends, because she's important to you.
21. Kiss her in the rain, without an umbrella.
22. Kiss her just to let her know you care.
23. If you're listening to music, give her the other headphone.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something. Even if it is simple and
inexpensive, it came from you. It will mean the world to her.
25. If she gets you a present on whatever occasion, tell her you love it, even if you
don't, just to make her happy.
26. Always call her when you say you will. Failing to do so will break her heart.
We love hearing your voice, even if only for a minute.
27. Give her what she wants, but don't smother her.
28. Recognize the small things. They mean the most.
29. Don't hug other girls before her.
30. Spend your free time with her. She will love you for it.
31. If you care her, don't just talk about it, show her.
taken from kaskus.us
(copas from Kresna's blog)
2. Hold her hand, just because you love her.
3. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
4. Wrestle with her, and let her win
5. Hug her from behind.
6. Don't hang out with your ex when she's not around. It kills her inside.
7. If you talk to another girl, walk over to her after you're done and kiss her.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say I love you.
9. Introduce her to your friends, as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up, even when she says no.
12. Get upset if she gets unwanted contact from someone else.
13. Make her laugh, just because you love to see her smile.
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her, don't fight back.
16. If you care about her, tell her, or else she won't come back.
17. Every girl should receive three presents from her guy:
- a teddy bear (she'll hug it when she goes to sleep)
- jewelry (she'll treasure it forever)
- one of your shirts (she'll wear it to bed)
18. Treat her same with your friends as when you are alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and give her your best smile.
20. Hang out with her on the weekends, because she's important to you.
21. Kiss her in the rain, without an umbrella.
22. Kiss her just to let her know you care.
23. If you're listening to music, give her the other headphone.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something. Even if it is simple and
inexpensive, it came from you. It will mean the world to her.
25. If she gets you a present on whatever occasion, tell her you love it, even if you
don't, just to make her happy.
26. Always call her when you say you will. Failing to do so will break her heart.
We love hearing your voice, even if only for a minute.
27. Give her what she wants, but don't smother her.
28. Recognize the small things. They mean the most.
29. Don't hug other girls before her.
30. Spend your free time with her. She will love you for it.
31. If you care her, don't just talk about it, show her.
taken from kaskus.us
(copas from Kresna's blog)
Oct 8, 2010
11 highly recommended songs based on me :D
1. GO - Boys Like Girls
cocoooook buaget buat orang2 yang mau move on. nyesel deh ngg move on kalo udah denger ni lagu hehehehe :D
2. HAPPY SUFFERING SONG - Leonardo Ringo
sangat sangat sangat cocok buat ber-happy ria, plus buat yang lagi pengen joget joget
3. INSECURE - Leonardo Ringo
lagu yang bikin gue jatuh cinta sejak pertama denger! asik banget bua nemenin kita everywhere and anytime :D
4. BE MY WIFE - Tangga
cocok buat cowo yang mau nembak cewe. cocok buat cewe kalo mau minta dinyanyiin sama cowonya. daaaaaaaaaaan cocok buat cewe single buat membayangkan ditembak cowo pake lagu ini ._.
5. LIGHT OVER ME - Leonardo Ringo
sejenis sama insecure. enak banget deh pokoknya
6. BACK TO HEAVEN'S LIGHT - Dewi Lestari
cocok buat siapa aja yang suka sama lagu mellow, asoy banget mellow tapi nggak cengeng (ada bedanya nggak sih?)
7. WONDROUS SKY - Leonardo Ringo
the best of leonardo ringo's songs! keren keren kereeeen banget!
8. THIS IS WHO I AM - mltr
hahahahaha nih potongan liriknya "this is who I am. a lil part of me that you don't understand" hahaha asik deh lagunya
9. INTRODUCING ME - Nick Jonas
gausah ditanyalah kalo yang nyanyi udh Nick Jonas pasti keren
10. VANILLA TWILIGHT - Owl City
yuhuuuu! enak banget! dan gua rasa gampang ngapalin kiriknya hahaha
11. MIDNIGHT HOORAY - Leonardo Ringo
actually you should listen to all leonardo ringo's songs. he's awsome
Oct 1, 2010
lemak oh lemak
saya punya banyak lemak dan saya benci akan hal itu sampai suatu hari..........saat itu gua sedang creambath di sebuah salon yang tidak terkenal, dan kakak gue baca majalah lalu menunjukannya pada gue. apa yang gue liat? foto seorang gadis yang kalo biasa kita bilang..... cuma punya tulang sama kulit. yap kurus sekurus kurusnya sampe bener2 keriput. apa yang terjadi? ternyata dia nggak punya lemak, jadi badannya cuma punya daging tulang kulit. mengerikan sekali bukan teman2? karena nggak punya lemak, dia harus makan sampe lebih dari 12x sehari, dan makanannya harus makanan yang benar2 berlemak (misalnya spaghetti yang dilumurin mentega cair, trus diparutin keju sebatang gede, dengan daging yang melimpah----oke itu iew banget), dia harus terus2an minum air putih dan jus. gilak, sejak saat itu gue bersyukur gue diciptakan dengan lemak di badan gue. nggak bisa bayangin kan gue harus melakukan hal2 di atas? jadi marilah bersyukur buat temen2 semua yang dikasih karunia lemak sama Tuhan :)
first love
semua orang pasti mengalami first love, yeah cinta pertama. waktu dimana seseorang mengalami first love pasti beda-beda. me myself still don't know what it is. kalo gue bilang gue udah pernah ngerasain kok kayaknya gue masih terlalu kecil. tapi kalo gue belom pernah, lalu apa yang gue rasain? yang gue tau, gue sayang sama seseorang sejak 4 tahun yang lalu dan sayangnya gue nggak pernah punya kesempatan buat memliliki orang itu. gue punya banyak kesempatan buat berbagi perasaan dengan dia, saling mengungkapkan rasa yang ternyata sama2 kami rasain, bahagia dengan rasa itu, dan siksa karena tidak bisa saling memiliki. kenapa? jangan tanya gue, gue nggak tau. dulu kita masih sering contact, bercanda2. lalu apa yang terjadi sampe sekarang? udah ngg ada lagi contact, tapi setiap kali gue liatin foto2nya, rasa getar itu belum hilang, bahkan masih terasa sama. well it's a lil bit too much but this is what I really feel. dulu kamu bilang sayang aku, dulu kamu sms aku hanya karena kamu liat di foto kacamataku baru, kamu sms aku hanya karena liat foto aku habis potong rambut ha ha sakit ya kalo inget dan sadar betapa berubahnya kita sekarang, dia bahkan cenderung menghindari gue. kalo mungkin emang gue nggak pernah bisa memiliki lo, apa kita ngg bs tetep jadi temen? nggak inget ya pernah bilang 'kita emg nggak bisa sama2 chie, tapi selamanya kamu sahabatku'. dulu terasa indah. sekarang? it hurts so bad......... apa dia first love gue?
this is why I create this blog
umur blog ini udah sekitar setaunan. dari awal, gue bikin blog bukan dengan konsep fashion blog atau blog yang designnya keren apa gimana. dari awal gue bikin blog buat share perasaan gue atau apalah yang pengen gue share ke orang. gue juga gatau blog ini ada yang baca apa enggak. yang penting buat gue, gue mau blogging, gue seneng blogging, gue seneng nulis buat berbagi apa aja yang gue pengen bagi hahaha kadang blogging bisa jadi cara ampuh buat melegakan perasaan, buat nyindir orang, apa ajalah. yeaaa gue berharap sih ni blog ada yang baca, tapi kalo gaada juga gapapasih ehhehe :)
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